Lessons from Miriam on How to be a Woman of Influence

Lessons from Miriam on How to be a Woman of Influence

When you hear the word “influencer,” sis, what comes to mind?

Is it:

  • Someone who travels to beautiful countries and takes gorgeous pictures?

  • Is it someone who has 10.5 million followers on social media and/or their email list?

  • Is it someone with multiple brand deals?

  • Is it someone who’s always seen to be rubbing shoulders with mainstream celebrities and/or those within your industry?

If that’s what comes to mind, I can’t say that I blame you, because that is what most people mean when they use the word “influencer” today. Here’s the thing, though-

Despite the images of influence that we’re often bombarded with, it’s actually a huge responsibility

I mean…

The definition of influence tells us so!

For example…

Lessons from Miriam on What it Means to be a Thought Leader

Lessons from Miriam on What it Means to be a Thought Leader

Recently, I found myself going down a bit of a rabbit hole while having my morning devotion

Has that ever happened to you, sis?

I started off in Exodus 15

Where verse 20 says that Miriam (Moses’ sister) was a prophetess

This then landed me in 1st Corinthians 14

Where verses 1-5 talk about what prophecy is

Which then had me thinking about thought leadership and why it’s so important in networking and PR

Let me explain….

Lessons from Jesus' Donkey on How to Dial Down Toxicity in your Life

Lessons from Jesus' Donkey on How to Dial Down Toxicity in your Life

Last week we talked about Jesus’ donkey and what she teaches us about how to overcome the insecurities that keep us from getting more visible

Remember that, sis?

Today, I will give you the practical steps for how to do this

As mentioned in last week’s post, a big part of letting go of insecurity is:

  • Loosing ourselves from other people’s opinion of us

  • Emancipating ourselves from mental slavery (Bob Marley)

Because it all comes down to mindset

Simply put-

Lessons from Jesus' Donkey on How to Overcome Insecurity and Get Visible

Lessons from Jesus' Donkey on How to Overcome Insecurity and Get Visible

If you’re looking for some quarantine viewing, sis, I would really recommend “20 Feet from Stardom” on Netflix

On the surface, it seems like a documentary on the music industry from the vantage point of (legendary) background singers. But, on a deeper level, it’s a really inspiring ensemble piece on grit, purpose and overcoming adversity.

One of my favourite quotes in the programme came from Dr. Mable John (former background singer to Ray Charles as part of The Raelettes):

“We as women need to know our worth. We need to know as women we’re important and I think the breakdown is when a woman doesn’t know who she is, and she settles for less. Check out your worth because you’re worth more than that”

A prime example of how we can carry out this awesome advice in our own lives is demonstrated really clearly in Matthew 21, which tells the story of the origins of Palm Sunday (today)

For example…

Lessons from God on why it takes a village to run a successful business

Lessons from God on why it takes a village to run a successful business

It is my belief that creation often reflects the Creator, sis

In other words, we can learn more and more about God the more that we study the Earth and it’s contents.

With it being Mother’s Day in the UK today, I’ve been reflecting on motherhood

A few years ago I did a blog post on the scriptures that describe God as mother rather than Father, as we’re used to.

For example, in Deuteronomy 32:18, God describes Himself as the God “who begot” or gave birth to us

Feel free to check out some other examples here and here.

We, as women, are able to reflect this aspect of God on both a spiritual and physical plane

For example-

Lessons from Sarah on How to Keep from Giving Up

Lessons from Sarah on How to Keep from Giving Up

One of the biggest lessons that we learned from the last few weeks of studying Ruth is that there are life and business goals that don’t happen without other people’s say so

For example, when it comes to PR, you can’t get featured unless someone accepts your proposal or pitch- just as Boaz did for Ruth all those years ago.

The issue is that sometimes the road to achieving your goals and dreams is by no means easy or linear

To the point that we can feel like our efforts are futile

But how can we keep from giving up when the going gets tough?

Well, there are 2 main steps which we see really clearly outlined in the events of Sarah’s life- as detailed in the video below.

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Great! Do whatever it is that you need to do to get comfortable so you can watch and enjoy the video below.

Lessons from Ruth on How to Find a Mentor

Lessons from Ruth on How to Find a Mentor

One of the things that I have mentioned quite a bit, in these last few weeks of studying Ruth, is that Ruth went from working in Boaz’ fields to owning them with him as his wife

She accomplished this feat through many different means and methods such as:

But, if you study the story properly, it becomes very apparent that the thing that really helped Ruth succeed was the mentoring that she received

Namely from Naomi (her mother-in-law)

This shows us, as modern women, how important it is that we seek mentorship too

Not sure how, sis?

We can take a leaf out of Ruth’s book in the following ways:

Lessons from Ruth on How to Craft a Media Pitch

Lessons from Ruth on How to Craft a Media Pitch

In my previous blog post, I gave 4 steps to networking vertically (with the gatekeepers of your industry)

These were:

  1. Start from where you stand

  2. Network across

  3. Network up

  4. Pitch

All of which are demonstrated clearly through the life of Ruth

For example, Ruth could not have gone from working in Boaz’ fields to owning them with him as his wife without him accepting her proposal. Click here if you missed that, sis!

As such we, as modern women, will have to take a leaf out of Ruth’s book if we want to achieve our goals- especially if they include increasing the visibility of your brand and business by pitching the media

A great place to start is mastering guest posting by becoming a guest author, blogger or contributor on another person’s platform.

Having now been featured in over 40 platforms, including Thrive Global, HuffPost, Bustle and the TEDx blog, you can read my tips for getting started with guest posting based on my experience via my most recent article in The Creative Penn