How to overcome insecurity

How to overcome insecurity

Often, in the conversations about having a “why,” we hear about the benefits

Like it being our North Star and keeping us going when the going gets tough or when life be life-ing

But what tends to be left out of those conversations is how intimidating our whys can be and/or how much they can lead to imposter syndrome

Because of their sheer size or the gap between what we want to achieve vs our experience/skill set

This is why I’m always comforted when I read stories about people who were confronted with huge tasks that God wanted them do and had similar responses

Like:

The biggest thing that we can learn from those stories and apply to our own lives is that, as much as we may want to banish imposter syndrome because of how debilitating it can be, it doesn’t have to be that way

Because “[God’s] grace is sufficient… and [His] strength is made perfect in [our] weakness”

All of that to say…

Why you need a why

Why you need a why

When the ladies attended Media Magic, in Mykonos (Greece) last October, only 50% of them knew their why

I know this because of the results they got from my PR readiness assessment

This means that, at that point, they did not know what kind of impact they wanted to maķe in the world through PR

Which is an issue because not only does knowing your why keep you going when life be life-ing, in general, it helps you to remain steadfast ìn the face of having pitches ignored, rejected or ghosted

By the end of the retreat, though, I had them assess themselves again and the results revealed that 100% of them knew how to do this. What led to this success was…

How to build a brand community with PR

How to build a brand community with PR

When I first started out in the online space in 2016 it was as a blogger

About a year into my journey, I became frustrated with the fact that, although I was working so hard on my content, it often felt like I was speaking into the void

I knew PR would help me attract a community of people who cared what I had to say but I had no idea how to get started. Fast forward and now I am an award winning blogger, international speaker and freelance writer who has not only been able to monetise my gift but get featured on several platforms

Like Thrive Global, The TEDx blog, HuffPost, Bustle, Mic, Addicted2Success, Black Ballad and more

The best part of all of this, though, is how appearing on these platforms has allowed me to grow and cultivate an engaged community of people

(Who not only care what I have to say, they help me develop content and offers)

For example, when I was developing Media Magic my community (i.e. you) helped me to finalise the concept and turn it into what it is today

(Media Magic is my luxury retreat for women in business who want to go from stumped to savvy about how to get PR)

Most recently, you helped me:

  • Name the new thing I’m developing for business women, experts, coaches and authors who are currently where I was (wanting to learn how to do PR but not knowing where to start)

  • Decide whether or not to share the BTS of making it a reality

100% of you wanted to see the logo for Get Visible; so I’ll be sharing that with you guys soon (stay tuned!)

What led to this success was something that I recently shared in my Instagram stories:

How to get comfortable being uncomfortable

How to get comfortable being uncomfortable

So, the last few days, I have been thinking about 2 scriptures in particular:

#1 The one that says we are more than conquerors

(Romans 8:37)

#2 The one that says I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me

(Philippians 4:13)

The reason why I have been thinking about them is because, at least if you’ve grown up like me, I feel that most of us have learned these scriptures out of context

And here’s what I mean by that…

How to achieve your goals when you don't know where to start

How to achieve your goals when you don't know where to start

When I first decided that I wanted to do a retreat in 2022, I knew that I wanted to merge my passions of travel, PR, coaching, building community and empowering women together but I was confused about the logistics

i.e. the how

Fast forward to now and, in October, I completed my second international retreat in Mykonos, Greece where I'm still receiving amazing feedback

What led to this success was…

How to get started with PR

How to get started with PR

When Karla attended the Media Magic retreat in Mykonos (Greece) last October, she had no idea how to get relevant PR opportunities

Even though this was a goal of hers for her tutoring business

By the end of the retreat, though, she knew how to pitch platforms where her ideal clients hang out so that she could convert them from indifferent bystanders to raving fans and customers

And she still counts this as one of her 2025 highlights

What led to this success was…